Almost
everyone dreads having to do it. I know I do. I have read surveys
that indicate many fear public speaking more than death. Let's think
about it for a minute and decide why.
The
entire problem is fear and this fear is ego based. No-one wants to be
thought of as a fool. If you get up in front of a group and draw a
blank or mess up what you intend to say it would be very
embarrassing. The embarrassment ties to ego.
Yes,
there are a few here who truly enjoy just being in the spotlight but most of those are simply too slow to realize they are making fools of
themselves or they really don't care, this is their chance to be seen.
Ego
and pride are destroyers. Many great ideas and opinions are not
brought forth because people are afraid they will look silly
speaking. So what! If you have a good point to make no-one cares how
eloquent you are. If your heart is true and your intentions good the
audience is with you and they want you to be there making your point.
Normally you will find once you start speaking the nerves go away and
things will turn out fine. If they don't do you think those listening
think less of you for having the backbone to give it a shot? I think
not.
Consider
it next time during the public comment section of a board meeting or
for that matter at any public forum. You are important. Your thoughts
are important. Don't sell yourself short and refuse the rest of us
the opportunity to hear your ideas. Don't let grandstanders drown out your voice.
Ken